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Monday, September 23, 2013, 3:37 AM
♥ Lost ♥
In my previous post,  I mentioned about sauve I was when I handed in my resignation.  Tonight as I lay on my bed,  I started worrying whether we will make ends meet if he was the sole breadwinner.

Probably that's not the only concern,  I stopped working 3 years ago so I can upgrade myself and have a better career prospect.  Now with a degree,  I am more lost than ever. No directions,  no opportunities.

Life is such a dilemma.
Friday, September 06, 2013, 12:23 PM
♥ Career Journey ♥
It's been slightly more than a year since I've pen down my thoughts.

My last 6 months in my last working place was a little more than unpleasant. I recall the day of my interview, the things that they said to me and how each and every day I lived in fear that I'll be ask to leave if I don't bring in the revenue (company's culture). Since the day I started working, I already have plans to quit. The way the director was micro-managing me and how difficult she was to work with. But I didn't have the courage to pay a not-too-bad paying job.

Things started to take for a change when my results were better but the results were inconsistent to a point of struggle.  The breaking point was when the 2 "team-leads" started to throw their weights around and said very mean things. Seriously I don't owe it to them for a living.

As I send out thank you emails to my existing clients, I recall how much I have been through despite the short 6 months with the company. I take along with me a different skill set and I believe there is growth and development within me.

From here onwards, I will be moving on to a better place and continue to grow.
Thursday, July 12, 2012, 4:39 PM
♥ 10 years of my youth ♥
Although being in 10 years of relationship with 2 different man didn't help me to fully decide on the type of man I want as a boyfriend or husband but it has definitely given me a better picture of what are the habits or characters that I didn't want.


I learnt that being with someone is not about wanting to change or mold him into the person that you want to be with. But rather its about waiting patiently and hopefully that the right one would stumble into your life one day, take your hands and walk through life with you. 



Thursday, June 14, 2012, 1:42 AM
♥ ♥
Suddenly I just feel like leading a normal life. Driving out for supper, slacking in bed with a good movie, hanging out with his friends over bowling, laughing over stupid stuff together, singing while driving.
Wednesday, June 06, 2012, 1:11 AM
♥ ♥
"That's the trouble with falling for fashion boys - one day you could wake up to find you're last season's girl."


How relevant this statement is to today's boy-girl relationship. Its like as though there is an expiry date. 
Sunday, April 29, 2012, 2:39 AM
♥ ♥
在考场的门口,我的眼泪渐渐的流下来..
Friday, April 27, 2012, 12:51 AM
♥ Exam Day 1 ... ♥
加油Shan ! You will pass all your papers :)
Wednesday, April 25, 2012, 2:48 AM
♥ 【天蝎座】 ♥
10.【天蝎座】 (10月24日 - 11月22日)

天蝎的极端性格,让许多人费尽心机也不能理解他们的真正想法,就算是最亲近的人也是时常感到莫名其妙,有时候以为自己已经走进了他们的世界,可又会被那一眼的冷漠给惊醒,是哪裡出了错,真的很想瞭解。对待爱情是非常执著的,当然也要求对方是同样的一心一意,若是用谎言来欺骗他们的真心,明明被看穿了,还装;那还能够说什麼呢,沉默或许也可以说是一种方式,不在沉默中选择继续爱,就在沉默中选择分手好了。

天蝎座爱上了谁就会把自己内心最软弱,最没有防备的地方展露出来、完全对爱没有戒心和算计。天蝎喜欢实实在在的付出,但是、爱情自然不会如同想像中美好,天蝎座的心无论如何都是会被伤几次的,最终、天蝎的爱都化成了眼泪。也许为谁流的眼泪最多、天蝎就最爱谁吧!

天蝎不懂甜言蜜语不屑拍马屁本能的排斥虚偽和做作的人,不会真的发火,天蝎变得冷淡就证明他开始对你重新审视,当他越是沉默就代表他越是生气,天蝎座可能看起来很兇其实内心是最柔软的,看起来很冷淡但那只是保护自己的方法,天蝎座很重视友情 但被伤害后绝对不再友善。

天蝎要的幸福很简单:一个亲吻;一个拥抱;一个电话;一个肩膀;一句爱我 ;一次约会;一盒便当; 一趟海边;一场大雨 ;一个寒冬; 一个炎夏;一段道路;一条马路;一次小吵;一程公车;一直挽手;一直信任;一直包容;一直瞭解。天蝎的爱也很简单:一个你,一心一意。

天蝎喜欢钱但不在乎,只要能保证自己想要的生活就行,讨厌干无意义的事,喜欢到悠閒、贴近大自然的地方旅游。不喜欢打扮,除非不得已,除非见心上人,最爱的运动从来都是睡觉,减肥从来只喊口号,有时连口号也懒得喊了。凡事总往好的方向想,房间太整洁不是人住的,适当的凌乱让天蝎会有种我有家的感觉。

天蝎的极端性格,让许多人费尽心机也不能理解他们的真正想法,就算是最亲近的人也是时常感到莫名其妙,有时候以为自己已经走进了他们的世界,可又会被那一眼的冷漠给惊醒,是哪裡出了错,真的很想瞭解。对待爱情是非常执著的,当然也要求对方是同样的一心一意,若是用谎言来欺骗他们的真心,明明被看穿了,还装"那还能够说什麼呢,沉默或许也可以说是一种方式,不在沉默中选择继续爱,就在沉默中选择分手好了。

只有真诚才能打动蝎子的心、不要勾心斗角、那只会让蝎子觉得好笑。跟天蝎在一起、恋爱是激情而浪漫的,生活蝎子也会帮你打点、蝎子是善良的慈善家,不过、蝎子小心眼、你要学会不断安抚,你要给蝎子及时的解释做错事情的原因、当时的想法,有错就认、这才是好孩子。

天蝎座的人都真性情,爱恨分明、总是口是心非,如果吵架没有多想、一定下一句说的比对方还狠,更没有退路、然后不知道在得意什麼,要命的自尊、喜欢简简单单就好,不喜欢世俗、一根筋想问题,开心的时候什麼都能丢一边,不开心的时候一句话也不愿意说。

天蝎白天理性、夜晚感性,白天坚强、夜晚脆弱。为一句话落泪、为一句话不爱,前一分鐘牵手、后一分鐘放手。会想很多、自以为完美的爱情却在最终受尽伤害。当爱上时、飞蛾扑火;当不爱时、寡言冷漠。

天蝎对於朋友、重质不重量、高度要求知心,寧可孤独、也不违心。对於爱情、寧缺勿滥、寧可抱憾终生、也不苟且凑合,内心具有高度责任感、忠诚性、自律性以及矛盾性,浪漫儒雅、风趣超脱、拥有诱人的容貌气质。

有自信、能完全的拥有自我,很少说奉承的话,一但讚美、即是真心的。通常有不少的敌人,而敌人很恨他、却又拿他没方法,是一个热情的人、却也是一个无情的危险份子。

天蝎座从小就是特别的爱研究事物、好奇心很强,但与其他小朋友不同的是、他们能够静静的去研根究底。

而对待爱情的天蝎们、是个不折不扣的专情星座,在他们眼裡、爱情只有两种:不是爱、就是恨。既然选择转身、就不会再回头。

天蝎是天生疑心病的冷血动物。

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Thursday, April 19, 2012, 12:46 AM
♥ My Love & Apology Language ♥

Tuesday, April 17, 2012, 3:39 PM
♥ 你的。。 ♥
你的痛没人懂。你的沉默没人了解。你的冷没人暖和。
Wednesday, April 11, 2012, 11:44 AM
♥ EXAMS !!! :( ♥
Didn't how much it would affect me.
Bad mood, can't study !!! :(
Wednesday, April 04, 2012, 8:30 AM
♥ 一个人的蜜月旅行 ♥
在起飞时,一不小心就落泪了。旁边的坐位是空着的。那使我想起当时我们是怎样开始计划这旅行。心就开始痛。
Friday, March 30, 2012, 11:05 PM
♥ R.I.P ♥
In Loving Memory of
❤Eden❤

♥ 「犀利人妻」 ♥
刚刚看完「犀利人妻」的干感触很多。

那人妻用了一生来保护一个家庭,爱她的老公和孩子却抵挡不了一个第三者的介入。那老公一时以为他要的是自由和他怀念的叛逆就和妻子离了婚,跟了那第三者。为了这第三者,他没了事业,家人和朋友。最后那第三者不爱他了,他才发现原来他要的只是一个幸福,平凡的家和生活。当他要和前妻复合的时候,她说「我回不去了」。

当你的事业有成就时,你有想过时是谁在你最失败和低潮的时候对你掏心掏肺,不离不弃吗?在一段坚固感情里不只是谁和你有共同的兴趣,可以跟你玩的最起劲,那个人还得陪你渡过风风雨雨。有一些人和事不是你错过后就能挽回.

很旧以前,我做错了一件事。那使我错过了一个很有可能成为我一生一史的终点。这一次,我不让自己重蹈覆辙,所以很努力很努力的去保护我的爱情。最终还是得不到我要的结局。

我曾经很爱很爱你。我把我所有的爱都给了你,忘了自己。可能是我的爱让你无法呼吸。也有可能是你自己不懂得珍惜。我会把这四年的回亿放在心里。 有一天我会好好的走下去。
Tuesday, March 27, 2012, 11:09 PM
♥ 过分的你 ♥
你真的很过分。还以为你只是在外面玩玩,屋里还有我的东西,我的存在。 可你却已经牵起别人的手。你很伤人,伤的我好深好深。
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