Love is about You and Me

Monday, December 21, 2009

Are you in the festive season mood yet ?!

NOT ME! I barely started with my christmas shopping and there are still so many household chores for me to complete. I want to doll up my room for christmas too! This is why I should clear my leave to do some human packing~

Blink blink - Its another year. Still remember I spent Christmas morning at church then have lunch with church friends then met up my poly clique for prawning session at night. So much happened in a year.

Christmas plans ain't final yet but the actual day will be dedicated to my family. Its been long since I did that.

There is my wishlist:
1. Camera
2. Adobe Photoshop software

Santa, you will make me happy right ?

I promise to be good next year ~

Can I have another wish ? I want to spend my next Christmas overseas next year.

_______love you.

Thursday, November 26, 2009

Back ! After a month. Everything in my blog doesn't seem to be working !

Anyway introducing a new old song. Sounds like an oxymoron ? Isn't it nice, if our partner really appreciates and recognises us for all the effort we put in to present ourselves and even to receive praise from them. I wonder when is the last time.... hmmmmm

Wonderful Tonight

Orinigal Singer: Eric Clapton

Resang by : Fang Da Dong

It's late in the evening

She's wondering what clothes to wear

She puts on her makeup

And brushes her long blonde hair

And then she asks me

Do I look alright

And I say yes, Darling you look wonderful tonight

We go to a party

And everyone turns to see

This beautiful lady

That's walking around with me

And then she asks me

Do you feel alright

And I say yes, I feel wonderful tonight

I feel wonderful

Because I see the love light in your eyes

And the wonder of it all

Is just that you don't realise

How much I love you

It's time to go home now

And I've got an aching head

So I give her the car keys

She helps me to bed

And then I tell her

As I turn out the light

I say my darling, you were wonderful tonight

Oh my darling, you were wonderful tonight

Baby, I feel wonderful tonight :)

_______love you.

Wednesday, October 14, 2009

My collegues and I were having lunch few weeks ago when we spoke about relationship, marriage, children and betrayal etc.

Q1 - Which is more unforgivable ?
A: Your partner falls in love with another person
B: Your partner has one night stand with another person (betrayal)

My answer: B

Q2 - Which kind of hurt lasts longer ? A: Your partner falls in love with another person B: Your partner has one night stand with another person (betrayal)

My answer: A

Q3 - At which stage would you consider, a betrayal ?
A: Fantasing about a 3rd party
B: Flirting with a 3rd party
C: Having physical contact with a 3rd party

My answer: A

Q4 - What would you do, if you found out that your husband is having an affair when you're pregnant with your 1st child?
A: Divorce him immediately
B: Pretend you don't know anything
C: Abort the child and divorce him

My answer: No Idea for now

_______love you.

Wednesday, September 30, 2009

HELLO everyone !!! I am back from the Johnnie Walker F1 craze.

Guess who I get to meet in person ????

- HEIKKI KOVALAINEN -

No idea who he is ? He is an F1 racer representing McLaren who happens to be Lewis Hamiliton's company too! Pretty short for a guy but rather charming and has a sense of humour.

ISN"T MY BABY ADORABLE ???!!!!!!

Parcel for Teo Hui Shan......... Any idea what's inside??

YEAH ! I won a pair of movie tickets to watch "The Ugly Truth", tank top and boxer because I took part in "The Ugly Truth Contest". The challenge was to submit a phrase that has got to do with the ugly truth about male and female.

Eg: Females love with their head and guys love with their dick.

So what did I submit ???

I DUN REMEMBER AT ALL ! :)

Never in my 22 years of life have I won prizes from lucky draws and contests. (Other than those sure win draws) Though the prizes ain't anything glamourous or expensive, I am SUPER happy :)

OH, did I mention there are 5 female and 5 male winners ?

Unfortunately, I had already watched The Ugly Turth with my now, BOTAK Boy, hence I am still not sure what to do with the tickets.

Sell it ? - Then I get extra cash to buy 1 Top (Any interested parties?)

Give it away ?

The show is really funny and quite touching !!! Females are really sometimes a control freak. OR should I say we think too much and hence we try to make things work the way we want?

BUT guys, unless you want to declare yourself gay, you really do NEED us in your life :D

_______love you.

Tuesday, September 15, 2009

Sway by Bic Runga

Don't stray

Don't ever go away

I should be much to smart for this

You know it gets the better of me

Sometimes

When you and I collide

I fall into an ocean of you

Pull me out in time

Don't let me drown

Let me down

I say its all because of you

And here I go

Losing my control

I'm practicing your name

So I can say it to your face

It doesn't seem right

To look you in the eye

And let all the things you mean to me

Come tumbling out my mouth

Indeed its time

Tell you whyI say its infinately true

Say you'll stay

Don't come and go

Like you do

Sway my way

Yeah I need to know

All about you

And there's no cure

And no way to be sure

Why everythings turned inside out

Instilling so much doubt

It makes me so tiredI feel so uninspired

My head is battling with my heart

My logic has been torn apart

And now

It all turns sour

Come sweeten every afternoon

Say you'll stay

Don't come and go

Like you do

Sway my way

Yeah I need to know

All about you

Say you'll stay

Don't come and go

Like you do

Sway my way

Yeah I need to know

All about you

Its all because of you

Now

It all turns sour

Come sweeten every afternoon

Its time

Tell you why

I say its infinately true

Say you'll stay

Don't come and go

Like you do

Sway my way

Yeah I need to know

All about you

Say you'll stay

Don't come and go

Like you do

Sway my way

Yeah I need to know

All about you

Its all because of you

_______love you.

Monday, September 07, 2009

Ratings

WOW Factor: 5/10

Awwww Effects: 7/10

HAHA Noise: 8/10

OVERRATED !

Girls, have you ever imagined yourself to be the one kneeling on the streets and proposing to your Husband Material type boyfriend ?

From the 1st time I asked myself this question, the answer have always been a "NO". Being proposed to is a memory for a lifetime in which woman is entitled to for the longest time in history. Call it traditional thinking.

PLUS I just got to sure the guy really wants me for him to be on his knees.

PUBLIC ? - Preferably not. Guys, you don't want the girl to nod her head out of pressure and only to find out she is not ready to commit. And guys, please test the girl's attitude towards starting a life-bound relationship with you.

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Ratings

WOW Factor: 6/10

Sniff Sniff Effects: 8/10

Having your boyfriend to appear and disappear out of your life ?

Non-Marriage Relationship - Yes

Marriage Relationship - No

If 24 hrs a day isn't enough to spilt between work, family and friends and now you got to deal with past and future.

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Counting down, 2 more days before Baby is enlisted. Hours felt like minutes for the amount of time spent with him . Wondering how am I going to survive the days without him online to chat with me, without my dinner dates and without a Good Night before I sleep.

I am such a loser !

_______love you.

Tuesday, September 01, 2009

Its been years that alarm clock does not work for me. Recently it has gotten worse when I can't even hear the morning call Baby's been faithfully doing for the past year. Gosh, am I unconscious or what?!

A very clean and comfortable cab picked me up for work but the driver just annoys me.

Uncle : "I cannot drop you at the main road, need to find small road."

Me: "But all along I have been boarding and alighting from that spot for past year."

Uncle: "No, cannot."

I tried to be understanding given my basic knowledge of basic driving theory. He stopped the car and meter some distance away.

Me: "Uncle, can you please drive further down?"

He RESTART the meter !!! Its just 15 steps away and takes less than 5 seconds to shift the car forward.

_______love you.

Monday, August 31, 2009

Friday

Day at office passed by pretty slowly but the "Weekend is here" just make the waiting bearable. There is this mass pigeon murder mission going on outside my office. I heard my collegues saying the pigeons were fed posion and they suddenly got high, crazy and flew all over the place. A pigeon was sitting on the ledge of the corridor outside my office for more than 2hrs. They were very still and looked stunned.

Anyway, there goes my long awaited date being postponed due to something more pressing. Nonetheless, Baby and I had a slow dinner of fried chicken, then headed back to catch a little "Peter Pan" on MioTv and turned in early for our adventure tomorrow.

Saturday

Woke up at 6.15am to prepare for a morning trip to Puala Ubin with Baby's dad, sis and sis's friend. Quick breakfast at Changi Village and speedy boat ride across the waters. Thought I have been there before but everywhere seems strangely unfamiliar. Here are some snapshoots here and there.

Mudskipper

Attap Chye

Hmmm duh, Crab.

Sunday

Ended up at Baby's grandparent's house or rather Room for the whole day. Sneaked out to Hougang Mall for some breather with his sis and indulged in fattening Hot Fudge Sundae and Seaweed Shaker Fries. Guess what I watched ? I can't believe I managed to finish this 3hrs long movie. Well, I dozed off at some parts but Baby refuse to let me miss the show. Finally my eyelid couldn't take it and I fell asleep. Basically, its a day of bed, tv and food.

Don't you think they look alike ? But obviously one looks fatter than the other and the one in Lord of the Rings look more charming.

_______love you.

Thursday, August 27, 2009

Clarifications to my Previous Post
Do I hate her ? - No. I think she is nice as a person and to be with but too aggressive for my liking in terms of working partner.

Castings
Life is pretty for me, literally. In terms of sourcing, selecting, interviewing models for the whole week. Its for an F1 week happening in Sept.

My personal favourite: Sally Brooks

Why I love her ? - She has the assassin look. I Love !

Personality Test
The Blue Brain

Because of their emotional base, blue brained people process and communicate in feelings. This provides an extra-sensitive ability to interact with and read other people. They are versatile and flexible, and are capable of playing many roles. This characteristic allows them to be organized as long as they don’t have too many tasks or stimuli at the time. They are usually active in play and fun. Their sensitivity to the feelings of others also gives them the ability to be empathetic, but sometimes creates difficulty in differentiating their own feelings from those of others. Relationships and people are usually central in their life, and when they learn, they must have a sense of personal connection with the instructor. They usually will take the blame (look at where they may have gone wrong) when something they are involved in goes amiss. Blue brained people communicate at a deeper level with others because of their verbal expressiveness and intuition. They may try to do everything themselves to be more considerate to others.

_______love you.

Tuesday, August 25, 2009

I had someone who just came to me asking me: "What have you been doing the whole morning?"

Unsure whether it is due to my sensitivity or easily triggered mood today, I was offended by that question. IF ! Someone directly above me is the one asking this question, I might not have reacted in the same manner. Her presence seems to threaten my rice bowl the moment she stepped in, projects being transffered to her, putting herself incharge of everything and crossing the line.

Perhaps its her to be aggressive and critical in what she does but the truth is, she is better in me in academic and she is a people person (?).

Can my friends tell me whether am I just in a bad mood or what she asked really triggers people's emotions ?

_______love you.

Thursday, August 20, 2009

We decide what time to wake up, what to wear, to put on makeup or not. Sometimes, there are obvious consequences in front of us to decide what choice to make.

Are you stuck at the crossroads? Are you afraid of making the wrong decisions ? Are you regretting your choice ? I for one, can't even decide what to wear in the morning. I am not sure where my decision will lead me to.Rule of opportunity cost.

_______love you.

Thursday, August 13, 2009

When Fathers Babysit Their Child Together

Simplicity of a child

When you were young, did you put on your mum's killer heels and tried to walk in it?

When you were young, did you pick up your grandma's bold red lipstick and draw it on yourself ?

Acting old too young ? Wishing you had enjoyed being young ?

Perhaps, its the effect complications of adulthood.

_______love you.

Monday, August 10, 2009

Here is a little story.

There was a man with two sons. The younger one said to his father: "Father, give me my share of the estate." So the Father divided his property between them.

Not long after that, the younger son got together all he had, set off for a distant country and there squandered his wealth in wild living. After he had spent everything, there was a severe famine in that whole country and he began to be in need. So he went and hired himself out to a citizen of the country who sent him to his fields to feed pigs. He longed to fill his stomach with the pods that the pigs were eating but no one gave him anything.

He came to his senses and went back to his father to beg for forgiveness regardless whether or not his father will be willing to accept him as his son. Instead of punishing of this son, he threw a feast to welcome him home and gave his best robes and food in celebration.

Just in case you guys didn't know, this story is taken from the Bible in the Book of Luke 15:11. Some of you may wonder, why the sudden "holiness" ? Tonight, I saw a mother's agony.

Spare the rod and spoil the child. I have always believed in this statement although I am still struggling for more freedom at this age. Blood is thicker than water. How many friends walked in and out of your life ? How many boyfriends/girlfriends broke your heart by abandoning you for something else ? Will they be there for you 24/7 ?

Will my mum do the same thing? I thought in envy. When I am down, I blamed my mum for leaving me, wishing she can be there for me whenever I needed her.

It suddenly occurred to me just an hour ago, what kind of agony she was going through for that 3 years, knowing that she cannot be there for me anymore. She battled very hard but couldn't win over the fate of life.

Now I want to tell her every little bit of details in my life and having the chance to spend more time with her. But its too late. No chance.

In case you are thinking, why is she wallowing in self pity again ? No, I am not sharing this to earn sentences like "Girl, be strong, we're here for you." nor "Girl, we understand how you feel." Cause no, you'll never be able to fully comprehend the pain. And after recently after my friend's mum death in an accident, then I was thankful at least my mum was living on borrowed time.

I want people around me to understand, how precious life is. Have you ever thought, what will happen if your mum suddenly disappears forever? What if you'll never get to feel her warmth again? All the what ifs........

Life don't give much chances to "What Ifs", so don't regret when its too late."

_______love you.

Monday, August 03, 2009

Having Monday Blues like me ? Check out the video to brighten your day ! :)

_______love you.

Friday, July 31, 2009

Yahoo !!!!~~ Just the thought of Friday makes me bim.

Sometimes, it feels good to do thing unplanned and yesterday was one of those days. Inital plan was to catch Public Enemies starring Johnny Depp. Was cracking our brains for dinner options and we ended up at Giraffe @ Istana Park. Some mouth watering pictures served first....

Tenderloin with Herb Butter

Over baked Salmon Fillet with Cream Sauce

Molten Lava Chocolate Cake with Vanilla Ice Cream

The food there are really good. The salmon doesn't have the fishy taste and the side dishes - Mashed Potato and Cucumbers are very well marinated and tasty. I do not have strong jaws hence medium rare beef is not my favourite. Luckily the part where Baby cut for me to try is medium well, one word: YUMMY !

The ambience is good too. No noisy young adults, daylight handing its position over to moonlight and if you are lucky enough, you get to see Ministers making an exit from Istana. Jealous for neglecting him over Melody
Went to PS arcade for some Car Racing session and Basketball Challenge. Completed 5 Sections but our accuracy not up to standard yet.
Time to go home? Nope, not when we have not satisfy our craving for watching a movie.

Humour: 10/10

Romance: 3/10

Content: 7/10

I am so glad that I decided to watched Hangover instead of public enemies after watching the trailer. Seriously if you are damn pissed off at work or just angry over minor problems, I am sure this show will let you forget the unpleasant moments. Its definately a no brainer show and well, you really got to be more than a little "dirty minded" in order to understand whats going on. With a group of friends like mine, there is no doubt I understand the content totally.

The person sitting close next to me was laughing so heartily. Baby must have been really tickled.

If "Forgetting Sarah Marshal" can make you laugh your pants off, I am sure this can too !

*I've been constantly reminding myself, "Think happy, Do happy thing, Be Happy". Life goes on. :)

_______love you.